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February 3, 2003

Space shuttles and other unnatural disasters

When the space shuttle Challenger blew up, I was in eighth grade. I remember it distinctly - every day we had five 50 minute classes and one class that was two hours long. The long class was the lunch period - you had a half hour of that time scheduled for lunch, and which half hour it was depended on what grade you were in. Eighth graders had second lunch - which was a half hour of class, then off to lunch, then an hour of class after lunch. On the day of the Challenger disaster, we had our half-hour of class, went to lunch, and when we came back there was a TV in the front of the classroom. My teacher, Mrs. Langlois, was a woman who wore makeup along the lines of Tammy Faye Bakker, and I can still see her crying - the makeup melting on her face.

At our school, things were heightened a bit because our science teacher had been part of the applicant pool for the NASA Teacher in Space program. She'd met Christa McAuliffe during the application process and we were all very attuned to the shuttle launch - I think most schools at the time were, because it was such an unusual thing. But that moment will live with me forever.

It's funny what you do and don't remember. I don't remember where I was when Reagan was shot or when I heard about Columbine - and those are big deals for a lot of people. I remember the OJ verdict - I was in a car riding to work as they were reading the verdict out and it was taking forever. The guy who drove me to work stayed in the car for twenty minutes waiting for the final answer and I just went inside. I had no patience to wait for something like that. I remember where I was when the David Koresh ranch burned in Waco. I was in college and I had no classes that afternoon. I was in my dorm watching the soap opera Another World when they interrupted to show footage of the place burning down. It was over so incredibly quickly - I think they even went back to the soap opera when it was done.

And now, there's this weekend. I got up up Saturday morning and was messing around on the computer - playing Clue at games.com - and I decided to switch over and play Mille Bornes. When I got into the game room, nobody was even playing; there were just a bunch of people loitering in the lobby, and one of them wrote 'debris on the ground in Nacogdoches Texas.' I thought the worst - that there had been a terrorist attack of some sort (after all, a regular airplane crash wasn't likely to attract that much attention) and so on some level I was relieved to find out that it was "just" a space shuttle explosion. That sounds so incredibly awful but in today's sociopolitical climate, it's not altogether surprising.

When the World Trade Center collapsed, I was at work. I work at the Federal Building in downtown Boston. My cube with a view overlooks Boston Harbor, and in my direct line of sight out the window is Logan Airport. My mom called me at work and told me to go home... and at about that time, our company decided that people could go home if they felt unsafe. I didn't feel unsafe - I just didn't know how to feel. So I didn't go home. I went to Barnes & Noble. I didn't figure that the bookstore was going to be a target any more than my house would be, and I just didn't want to leave the busy-ness of people and downtown and the city yet to venture out to the suburbs. There's a strange sense of community that descends upon you in disaster - but somehow of late there has been so much tension and foreboding in the world that this most recent addition - the space shuttle disaster - pales. And on a lot of levels, that's sad.

I know where I was when I heard about the Oklahoma City bombing. I know who was with me when I heard that Princess Diana had died. I remember the Exxon Valdez disaster. And it's important, on some level within me, that I remember this too - in its own context, outside the world touched by al-Qaeda and Saddam and random threats from wherever. It's important.

February 10, 2003

Search strings...

In this month's (week's?) edition of "Insane ways people find my website" I give you my latest search strings. People have managed to find me on Google by entering "fucker," "ass shots," and "woohoo" - all of which make a certain amount of sense to me.

But new on my list of annoying things that lead you here are "bridesmaids from hell" (I love my bridesmaids, but I'm not actually calling them bridesmaids because the term seems somehow antiquated - neither here nor there, but they aren't from hell) and "the ozzbornes" (um, yeah, I would never spell it like that).

And in the realm of truly horrifying, you can now reach LaughAtlantis by looking up "cinderalla porn" or "brother fuck sister."

Please, people. If you're out there looking up either of those things, don't click over to my site. Believe it or not, for the most part, this site isn't a freak show...

For the most part.

February 11, 2003

Notes from abroad...

My international visitors list continues to grow. Here are the countries from which folks have visited my site, in alphabetical order (well, roughly).

Australia - Belgium - Brazil - Canada - China - Czech Republic - Denmark - Estonia - Finland - France - Germany - Hong Kong - Hungary - Iceland - Indonesia - Ireland - Israel - Italy - Japan - Mexico - Netherlands - New Zealand - Poland - Saudi Arabia - Seychelles - Singapore - South Africa - South Korea - Spain - Sweden - Switzerland - Taiwan - United Kingdom - Zimbabwe

I know that it's monumentally stupid that I am so very interested in these things, but I just am. I'm sorta pathetic like that. Sigh.

February 15, 2003

Friday Five

So, I don't always do the Friday Five but this week it's goooooooooood.

1. Explain why you started to journal/blog.
Rod got me started. He bought me the domain name as a present early on in our relationship and I've been blogging away ever since.

2. Do people you interact with day to day or family members know about your journal/blog? Why or why not?
Um, yes and no. Some members of my family know, others don't, others do but I wish they didn't. My mother found out about it and has been bitter ever since, despite the fact that I don't generally use this as a public forum to blast her - she seems to think it's the only reason I even have a web site at all. So, that misperception being the case, I don't think she looks at the site all that often. Some of my friends know - those I think might be interested or those who are far away and can sort of keep up on my life through it. And a handful of my co-workers know about it, but I don't know that any of them actually visit it.

3. Do you have a theme for your journal/blog?
Not really. Random thoughts, mostly. Ranting when I need to, funny stuff when I find stuff I want to share. Occasional philosophizing. A little of everything, really... but no theme over all.

4. What direction would you like to have your journal/blog go in over the next year?
I'd like to be more faithful to it. I've been notably bad about it lately, but that's because work's been crazy and wedding planning has been preoccupying my mind an awful lot... so rather than blog I've been wandering wedding websites and message boards and seking the perfect gown and cake and invitation and on and on, ad infinitum. Well, I suppose not literally ad infinitum, because I've just about stopped. I'm still reading the Wedding Channel message boards because I love the little community that they've got going there, but other than that, I've calmed down a bit. And my wedding bloggery is happening over at Rod's and my wedding site so I've got stuff to write there and here.

5. Pimp five of your favorite journals/blogs.
Oh, the choices! I suppose I should give props to Rod, but since I mentioned him in that first question, I'm going to skip him now. Ha! It's like I get six for the price of five! I don't have time to blogjump every day, but these are always the first ones I tend to check when I've got some reading time... and I would put some sort of fabulous description of each, but essentially, it would just say Meegan's thoughts... Statia's rants... Mikey's random horniness... or some such boring thing, so just go check'em out yourself.

  • Pizza Dreaming (Er, that would be Statia's rants.)
  • Not So Simple (Ahem. Meegan's thoughts.)
  • Electric Bugaloo (Mikey's horniness and other entertaining things.)
  • Annessa.Net (This is a new read for me that I just love. It's Annessa's, um, thoughts, and, erm, stuff like that. See, boring description. Good blog.)
  • Sassypants (Sarah was one of the first visitors to my site so she has a special place in my heart - and she's funny. Go visit.)

I would give honorable mentions but I'm tired. Maybe I'll do a whole linky thing in some other entry - or maybe at some point soon I will update my blogroll so that I have a whole "cool blogs to read" section. Or maybe I will remain the lazy ass that I am and not bother.

We'll see.

February 25, 2003

Excitement and all that

So, I've been really bad about the blog lately.

I've gotten caught up in wedding stuff and I've been looking for inspiration, and I think I've found it.

(I've also finally learned how to add images to my posts. Yay me.)

In any case, AlphaBytes is sort of an offshoot of the Random Acts of Journaling project. They are looking to do an entry for each letter of the alphabet during the month of March. They got lists of words from various readers/journalers and culled the long lists down to a list of 7-10 words. I volunteered to cull the lists and got to pick the words for C, G, and L. So if they're particularly inspiring, you can thank me. If not, you sorta have to blame the folks who sent in the words in the first place. :)

So yeah, now I am just chomping at the bit to start this thing. Yeah for more blogging!

The ME network

That last entry reminded me that I haven't yet done the random act of journaling for February. Here's the challenge this time around:

If you could create your own cable network, what shows, current, cancelled, or vintage, would you feature on your lineup?

The difficulty for me here is knowing that I only have 168 hours in a week to play with.

I am really attacking this assignment with gusto. So here's what I want, to make my viewing life complete - REALLY complete. In no particular order...

21 Jump Street - My God, I miss this show.
Cheers - This is the TV show that was the top of the charts for my teen-age years, and I've probably seen every episode a dozen times.
Friends - Probably seen every episode of this a dozen times as well.
Homicide: Life on the Streets - Among the best television I've ever seen.
Taxi - My favorite TV show ever.
The Monkees - FUN!
ER - The early years, before it turned into crap.
24 - The best show on television right now.
The West Wing - The second best show on television right now.
Family Ties - MalloREE!
Lottery! - Nobody remembers this show, but I LOVED it.
Saturday Night Live - I'd be selective about which years, though.
Late Night! with Conan O'Brien - I think he's funnier and gets better guests than anyone else in late night.
Politically Incorrect with Bill Maher - I just wish this show was still on.
It's Garry Shandling's Show - This is the theme to Garry's show, the opening theme to Garry's show, this is the msuic that you hear while you watch the credits.
Head of the Class - Ditto what I said about ER.
Hooperman - GOOD show. John Ritter and his little dog, too.
Mama's Family - Shut up, I loved this show.
Gimme a Break! - Just a good, fun show, even after Dolph Sweet died and Joey Lawrence joined the cast.
Muppet Show - The most sensational inspirational celebrational Muppetational...
Great Space Coaster - No gnews is good gnews with Garry Gnu.
Tic-Tac-Dough - The best game show ever.
My Secret Identity - Really, just because I want to relive how awful it was, I swear. Jerry O'Connell played a kid who could fly by using aerosol cans.
My Two Dads - Giovanni Ribisi made his debut on this show as Corey Kupkus. You know you remember that.
Night Court - John Larroquette kicked ass.
Press Your Luck - This new Whammy! shit just doesn't compare.
Santa Barbara - The first soap opera I ever watched.
Another World - The first soap opera I ever loved.
Starman - Loved this show. I had CB Barnes (later Christopher Daniel Barnes) on it, and I had a little crush.
Day by Day - Also had CB Barnes. And Julia Louis-Dreyfus, though I didn't have a crush on her.
St. Elsewhere - Fabulous show. Brilliant story lines and gret actors - hell, it had David Morse and Denzel Washington
V - Great sci-fi miniseries that became a show.
Welcome Back, Kotter - John Travolta's career got launched. None of the other cast members have had a job since then.
Changing Rooms - Because I love it.
Trading Spaces - Because they just copied Changing Rooms.
Buffy the Vampire Slayer - The movie was crap, but this is just a brilliant TV show.
Angel - Spin-off of Buffy, fantastic in its own right.
Coupling - A very successful British series based on Friends. NBC just bought the rights and is making a series based on Coupling as the replacement for Friends. Ironic?
Junkyard Wars - I can't explain the lure of this show. It's really just fun.

That fills 28 and a half hours. Figure I'm going to repeat a bunch of them more than once a week - you know, on a five day or seven day cycle. And there's probably a billion shows I am forgetting, so expect updates to this list.

Oh, and because my wedding could potentially be called off if I don't include this, I suppose I'll add The Simpsons to my list. :)

February 28, 2003

Won't you be my neighbor?

I'm kinda bummed about Mr. Rogers dying. This morning when I changed out of my sneakers at work, I took a little moment of silence.

Seized

So, I haven't talked at all in my blog about being an epileptic.

I'm an epileptic.

This has not, historically, been much of an issue for me. I can go for months, sometimes years at a time without having any problems. Up until last March, I hadn't had a seizure in three years. But in February 2002 I started to change my medication. I was having trouble with the long term side effects of the stuff I was on and it just seemed like a good idea to transfer me to something else before things got really bad. The process of changing medications was slow and difficult. I was so overdrugged at some points that I couldn't even hold my head up. I remember one point where I was watching a movie on the VCR and I couldn't get up to switch the tape, so I just pressed rewind and watched the same damn movie three times. I was a mess.

Once I got acclimated to my new medication, however, things began to look up. I'd had two seizures in the process of switching meds, which, all things considered, isn't bad at all. And things went along just fine until January 2003.

On January 6, I had to give a major presentation to a large group of people where I work. It was to be an all-day meeting, and I was (and am) the person who has the most familiarity with the stuff we were presenting. I could tell from the minute I got up that morning that I was not doing too well. I was spacey and out of it and I really shouldn't have gone to work but I let my pride get the best of me. So off I went. And less than an hour into the meeting, I had a seizure. Apparently I had just described sincere customer service and helpful customer service, and was about to give an example of the difference between the two. I basically said, "For example..." and then fell on the floor. I suppose that if the team is confused, I should blame myself. After all, not a particularly good example, you know?

A lot of the people in that room didn't know that I was an epileptic. Obviously, they know now.

On Wednesday, I had another seizure. I was in my cube, eating lunch, and this one just came out of nowhere - no warning, nothing. Apparently I really did a job on myself. I managed to bang my forehead on the desk and twist my shoulder around and bang that on the back of my cubicle. Some people in my office watched over me, called a cab, and sent me home, where I slept for the remainder of the afternoon. Now that I'm back at work, I see that I apparently ripped about six post-it notes off my desk and crumbled them all up - not on purpose, mind you, just as a side effect. I just destroyed this place.

The weirdest part of my whole seizure experience this week was that this morning, a guy on the T had a seizure while sitting directly opposite me. He fell and started making chewing motions with his mouth. For the most part, people didn't panic, but somebody did attempt to stick something in his mouth as a means of stopping him from swallowing his tongue. I stopped them from doing that. The whole tongue-swallowing business is a myth and you're likely to get bitten - the jaw clenches when a seizure happens and can thus result in you getting your fingers broken if you try to stick them in someone's mouth.

Anyway, this guy popped back up and said he was sorry, that he'd been feeling faint and wanted to get off the T and get some fresh air. He got off at the next stop and somebody followed him in order to make sure he wasn't alone. Thank goodness they did, because he seized again the minute he got off the train. It was weird though, this guy really seemed like he didn't know that he'd had a seizure - or he didn't want other people to know that he'd had one.

With me, you can tell. I'm out of it for a long while afterwards. But I don't mind talking about it. Ask away - ask whatever questions you've got. I can't tell you the world about epilepsy, but I'm happy to share what it's like for me. If I didn't, well, I guess I wouldn't be writing this, huh?

I hope I don't have a lot of seizures coming. Seizures sorta suck. And while that statement doesn't tell you the world about epilepsy, it's a fairly good encapsulation.

About February 2003

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